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Saturday, February 1, 2014

Didn't He Marry One of The Adopted Girls?



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Woody Allen's adopted daughter details alleged sexual abuse in New York Times essay
By Jeff Sneider
TheWrap
Woody Allen's adopted daughter Dylan Farrow reached out to New York Timescolumnist Nicholas Kristof to help her share her story alleging that she was molested by the legendary director.
In 1992, when she was seven years old, Farrow claimed Allen committed a sexual assault that included "inappropriate touching," and led to a diagnosis of belated PTSD years later.
Allen, who has long denied the allegations, has never been convicted of a crime and is innocent in the eyes of the law.
Farrow excoriates Hollywood for gifting Allen with another Oscar nomination for his "Blue Jasmine" screenplay.
"What if it had been your child, Cate Blanchett? Louis CK? Alec Baldwin? What if it had been you, Emma Stone? Or you, Scarlett Johansson? You knew me when I was a little girl, Diane Keaton. Have you forgotten me?" Farrow writes emotionally.
"I know it's 'he said, she said.' But, to me, it's black and white, because I was there," Farrow wrote, adding an explanation as to the timing, which coincides with Allen's recent Golden Globe honor. "I was thinking, if I don't speak out, I'll regret it on my death bed."
Kristof is a family friend of the Farrows, which is why Dylan reached out to him. Farrow is a 28 year-old writer/artist who is currently married in living in Florida under a different name.
Farrow writes:
That he got away with what he did to me haunted me as I grew up. I was stricken with guilt that I had allowed him to be near other little girls. I was terrified of being touched by men. I developed an eating disorder. I began cutting myself.
That torment was made worse by Hollywood. All but a precious few (my heroes) turned a blind eye. Most found it easier to accept the ambiguity, to say, "who can say what happened," to pretend that nothing was wrong. Actors praised him at awards shows. Networks put him on TV. Critics put him in magazines. Each time I saw my abuser's face -- on a poster, on a T-shirt, on television -- I could only hide my panic until I found a place to be alone and fall apart.
This time, I refuse to fall apart. For so long, Woody Allen's acceptance silenced me. It felt like a personal rebuke, like the awards and accolades were a way to tell me to shut up and go away. But the survivors of sexual abuse who have reached out to me -- to support me and to share their fears of coming forward, of being called a liar, of being told their memories aren't their memories -- have given me a reason to not be silent, if only so others know that they don't have to be silent either.
Today, I consider myself lucky. I am happily married. I have the support of my amazing brothers and sisters. I have a mother who found within herself a well of fortitude that saved us from the chaos a predator brought into our home.
But others are still scared, vulnerable, and struggling for the courage to tell the truth. The message that Hollywood sends matters for them.
The full letter can be found at the New York Times.

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